Since QMDJ started teaching to the western, as I know that most of the students thinking of life is a battle, which they were being teaching like that. They admitted that QMDJ is a powerful tool to win the competitors deal to this business world. They try to get themselves always in good hands.
Well, this will involve a very interesting situation, if your life is like a battle, than your life is tough. You always need to be alert, enemies come from different direction. Your personality become more aggressive, no friendship can build, no one can trust, plus you are under stress to be a loser. When you disagree with other opinions, you automatic classify them as your enemies, you start fighting with them because of your fear.
I am totally understand this kind of psychology because our education are motivated you to be the top of the class, to be the leader of the company. Once you fall in this psychology track, then your life is so poor.
I have some friends who are solders before, what I heard from their war stories, they lost themselves in fear all the time, they did not know whether they could survive in next minute or not! A few minutes faster meal never let them to enjoy eating, more worst situation was they need to fight in empty stomach for a period of time. Peaceful sleeping were expensive for them.
Although they were lucky to survive from the war, but mental sickness following with them. They were depress easily when talking with their experience. They have guilty for the rest of the life if they killed someone in the war. They clearly remember the blood bodies fell down in front of them.
I would like to ask you, my friends won the battle but got the mental sickness, then they were a winners or a losers?